Week 40 Update

Posted October 11, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Miscellaneous / 0 Comments

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Completed Projects

None!

Goal Updates

  • 3/12 books
  • Meet my deadlines

Writing Updates

This Week’s Fiction Wordcount: 0

This Week’s Non-Fiction Wordcount: 1,442

Life And Other Such Important Matters

Well. I’d expected to be back on top of everything this week, but then I spent half the days in bed and getting little done. It’s flu shot season and I’m still not entirely recovered. I had a good day yesterday, but today I woke up with a stomach ache again and… Uff, I don’t know. It’s frustrating because at the start of the week and over the weekend I put off Let’s Read Academics because I was hopeful I’d be able to do so before Wednesday, but I was not. Boohiss. I’m really sorry that makes it the second week in a row that doesn’t have Let’s Read Academics delivered on time. (I mean, look at this week’s posts. That is ridiculously few.)

I don’t want to compromise on quality, so… Uff. I’m just. So annoyed at myself. I don’t get sick, except around flu shot season, apparently. I’m aiming to get at least the essay for this week out before the end of today, so please don’t be surprised if you get two posts in your inbox today.

That said, I have been getting some things with pressing and looming deadlines done that I hope people will appreciate a lot. I’ve also been hard at work on a secretish project for Asexual Awareness Week later this month (20-26 October!) and I’m hoping that it’ll be really helpful to people. It’s basically a mini-series of videos (sort of) about the ace rep that’s out there. I’m planning to do a similar set for Aromantic Awareness Week in 2020 as well. It’s a combination of everything I learned about the state of rep, how you can start looking for it yourself, and a set of genres or tropes that have books with ace rep in them. I’m really hopeful that it’s got something for everyone in there or that, at the very least, it’ll help people figure out where to find it themselves.

So… Now that project isn’t so secret anymore. And if it wasn’t for being curled up in bed so much it would’ve been fine to combine it with everything else.

Life itself is… filled with being ill and the lowered ability to cope. I woke up today with cat at the foot of my bed being unresponsive to an accidental kick and I freaked out. Cat is fine, but she’s elderly and usually responds when you touch her.

Stand-out Positive Moment

Cat’s not dead! Okay, fine, that’s cheating. The video series I’m prepping, though, is pretty positive. I’m really excited to start sharing those in a little over a week. Meep!

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September Wrap-up

Posted October 4, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Miscellaneous / 0 Comments

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Hi, everyone! It’s that time again! Monthly news and accountability! September’s always a difficult month for me timewise. Lots of family things to deal with, lots of scheduling upheaval, lots of disrupted sleep schedules… It’s basically The Month In Which I Get Nothing Done.

But this time with deadlines.

Life And Other Such Important Matters

[nods up] Like I said, September is generally incredibly busy. I promised some updates, though, so! First of all, my paper is back to not-cooperating (but I’ve almost got it sorted out; I would like it if they didn’t fight me quite this badly), so I actually missed my (self-imposed, thankfully) deadline. Now it’s down to hard work and sheer stubbornness. (No, don’t worry. It’s fine.) And then, hopefully, I will get a chance to talk about it in more detail. I just. I’m excited (which isn’t really helping).

But, no, the main issue is lots of family drama and stress and, sigh, I’ll be honest, struggling in general. Just this morning, I got to wake up to the neighbours being verbally abusive at one another – again – and I don’t think I’ve had a day this past week that did not involve people being verbally abusive loudly. On top of that, New Dog had another presumably epilepsy attack and he’s now on medication to help mitigate them, my poor bb. He is, however, thankfully very good at taking said medication and is a Good Boy.

Anyway! That’s all to say that September this year was pretty hellish and I’m tired and I’m down to admitting that 90% of the reason I’m struggling with DemiPrincess2 progress is down to being stressed and anxious all the time and trying to claw my way out of the situation that causes it with no effect. That… should be more depressing than it is, but it feels more manageable somehow to have a reason. If I know what the issue is, I can work to fix it, you know?

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Review: Tarnished Are the Stars by Rosiee Thor

Nathaniel is my precious son and I am so very proud of him.

That’s it. That’s the whole review.

Just kidding, of course it’s not the whole review.

Completed Projects

Oh, look. I predicted correctly that this would be the month of fail. I did read over 12 books, though!

October Goals

  • 0/12 books
  • Meet my deadlines

Nope. No, that’s it. That’s all I’ve got this month.

September Goals

  • 13/12 books
  • 0/1 completed proper paper
  • 4,206/5,000 words of fiction written

Writing Updates

This Month’s Fiction Wordcount: 4,206

This Month’s Non-Fiction Wordcount: 21,925

DemiPrincess2: Sloooooooow progress is slooooooooooow. But also progress. I’ve slowly come to accept that my original excuse for an outline just isn’t going to work too. Uuugh. I just want to finish this story. These are fun characters. But also I have a bajillion stories. I want to tell them! T_T

Stand-out Positive Moment

I visited caves! Biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig caves! That were such a nice, cool temperature and learned lots of things about caves that I’ve probably already stuffed in my subconscious memory or tossed entirely because my brain is useless. I have PICTURES of caves. This is in no way relevant for any particular project or anything, it just makes me happy because I’m not good at photography – my hands aren’t steady enough – and I have a ton of pictures that look… at least okay.

ALSO I SAW BEARS! And a bajillion deer. And bison. And I didn’t get anyone lost! (Listen, I manage to get lost on straight lines and buses. This is not a guarantee if you put me in charge of navigation.)

But that made me happy.

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Week 39 Update

Posted September 27, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Miscellaneous / 0 Comments

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Completed Projects

  • None! :O

Goal Updates

  • 13/12 books
  • 0/1 completed proper paper
  • 1,686/5,000 words of fiction written

Writing Updates

This Week’s Fiction Wordcount: 1,229

This Week’s Non-Fiction Wordcount: 5,071

DemiPrincess2: [keels over] Chapter 15 is done! In draft form anyway. That puts me about… 30K from the end? Ish? At long last? I love these characters, but. Graaaaaaaah! I’m now back to the scenes of Demisexual Princess Explores Dating. Well, sort of. But here, have a very short summary of Fili in chapter 15:

Fili: I’m a misanthrope. I hate people. People are the worst and everyone could just die and it’d be perfectly fine.
Also Fili: [is rushing into a burning building to save a trapped child while saying the above]

Okay, that’s not actually what happens, but it is that vibe. Bless him.

Life And Other Such Important Matters

Life is… Well, it is. The awesome opportunity sadly did not work out and New Dog had what we presume is another epileptic attack. So now we need new meds. But also this time around we filmed it, so at least the vets can see what happened!

In other news, I’m stuck in deadline hell. Gaaaaah. So the schedule for the next week or so is a little borked and I may not make the 5K fiction goal! Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!! [flail] (It’s okay. Breathe. It’s okay. Wait. Also I forgot to add the editing I did. That puts it closer. I’m pretty sure. I just. Don’t remember what the wordcount is or the length of time I edited. Aaaaah! Now my stats are inaccurate!)

So, well, as you can see, life at the moment is FLAIL. But hey some of the tough emotional/social aspects of it may be slowing down now, so we just have to make sure New Dog is okay and maybe/hopefully things will be better and I can actually, like, advertise that I do editing and have slots available? Just got to make it through these final days of September and things will calm down again. I can’t wait! Aaaaaah!

Stand-out Positive Moment

I now have a set of very pretty dice. That arrived, like, a week before they were estimated to arrive. I am very pleased and happy. (We’ve also learnt that I’m very definitely a Fancy Dice person, but honestly that probably won’t surprise anyone who knows me.)

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Lynn rambles about… why articles about asexuality are so bad at including aromanticism

Posted September 21, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Miscellaneous / 0 Comments

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A frequent complaint asexual and aromantic people have to articles about asexuality is the way it often conflates asexuality with aromanticism and assumes aromanticism is kind of a subset of asexuality. It’s not; they’re two different concepts.

But we, and society in general, are kind of used to treating these orientations as either the same or so intricately woven together you can’t easily see where the divide is. Throw in that people’s experiences can differ and, well, you get the conflation we often see as well as the erasure that accompanies it.

Which is a lot shorter than the almost-hour I rambled about it. But to be fair, the ramble has more examples and arguments and bits of history and academic theory in it. Yay?

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Week 38 Update

Posted September 20, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Miscellaneous / 0 Comments

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Completed Projects

September is, I predict, going to be the month of Fail.

Goal Updates

  • 11/12 books
  • 0/1 completed proper paper
  • 457/5,000 words of fiction written

Writing Updates

This Week’s Fiction Wordcount: 457

This Week’s Non-Fiction Wordcount: 4,575

DemiPrincess: Look! Words! They exist now!

Life And Other Such Important Matters

I’m… basically up for the sole purpose of writing this post. Yesterday was not a good day (thanks, uterus) and today is apparently a continuation (thanks, anxiety), so I’m mostly non-functional right now. I’ll be all right. Just. If science could get on the whole How To Make Periods Not Be A Nightmare, that would be great, thanks.

Stand-out Positive Moment

I HAVE WORDS. Also I have an amazing editing project to work on right now and I’m so excited!

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Review: Hazel’s Theory of Evolution by Lisa Jenn Bigelow

Posted September 16, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Books / 0 Comments

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Review: Hazel’s Theory of Evolution by Lisa Jenn BigelowHazel's Theory of Evolution by Lisa Jenn Bigelow
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“Just because you don’t understand it doesn’t make it illogical.”

Hazel knows all about life on Earth. She could tell you anything from what earthworms eat to how fast a turkey can run. That’s because when she’s not hanging out with her best friend, Becca, or helping care for the goats on her family’s farm, she loves reading through dusty old encyclopedias. But even Hazel doesn’t have answers for the questions awaiting her as she enters eighth grade.

Due to redistricting, she has to attend a new school where she worries no one will understand her. And at home things get worse when she discovers one of her moms is pregnant. Hazel can’t wait to be a big sister, but her mom has already miscarried twice. Hazel fears it might happen again.

As Hazel struggles through the next few months, she’ll grow to realize that if the answers to life’s most important questions can’t be found in a book, she’ll have to find them within herself.

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Lynn rambles about… Asexual Fairy Tales by Elizabeth Hopkinson

Posted September 14, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Miscellaneous / 0 Comments

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We’re trying something new this time around: Lynn Rambles, but with a backdrop for YouTube. What! I don’t know if it’ll work, but it’d be a nice way to get into booktube somewhat and to make use of YouTube’s auto-captions for the podcasty thing.
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Earlier this year, I supported a Kickstarter project by fellow acespec author Elizabeth Hopkinson to finance the publication of a book of retold asexual fairy tales. As anyone who’s known me for any length of time knows that noun phrase is absolute catnip to me and I pounced on supporting it any way I could.
Back in August, the backer ebooks (so kind of like e-ARCs) were released and I dropped everything I was doing to read it. Then I reviewed it on GoodReads and then I tried very hard to record a nice and lovely podcasty thing and failed spectacularly because my mic is about as sensitive as a stereotypical princess on a mountain of mattresses hiding a pea. It’s something I was deadset on doing, though, because while I can think of some things that it could have done (and still do) better, I also think it’s an invaluable resource for people exploring asexuality and aromanticism in fiction and the traces we can find throughout history and throughout locations.
And now I have finally succeeded! Huzzah! In a new format because why not record a podcasty thing with a static image or bring up things as I need them, like the GoodReads page most of this video shows.
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Week 37 Update

Posted September 13, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Miscellaneous / 0 Comments

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Completed Projects

N/A

Goal Updates

  • 8/12 books
  • 0/1 completed proper paper
  • 0/5,000 words of fiction written

Writing Updates

This Week’s Fiction Wordcount: 0

This Week’s Non-Fiction Wordcount: 5,083

Wow. This week was. It was. A lot. It feels like I wrote easily twice as much nonfiction even when I know I haven’t at all. That’s how heavy the latest Let’s Read Academics is. OMG!

Life And Other Such Important Matters

Life is… Well, it is. Let’s leave it at that. The situation I’m in is… less than ideal and likely to stay that way for the foreseeable future, so I’m focusing on things that move in a positive direction. It’s something that they taugh me in the course my university councellors pushed me into – which, the less said about it the better, but this bit I liked – and it’s when you don’t have big positive things to consider, focus on small things. Like morning walks with pets and the ability to sing (even if I do not have the breath control to sing it and can’t reach some of the notes. Oops). And games that you enjoy. Small things. I’d also add friendship and trying new recipes that work out well. I mean, sometimes they’re the type of changes where you know it’s going to work out well, but if you’re not good at knowing what goes together it still ends up feeling really good. This week’s twist was “Oh, let’s add shredded cheese to this potato bread” and, listen, I think I might die for that combination it was that good and literally all I did was add some cheese.

I’ve got to find a way to work them into stories, so I can feel justified in adding a recipe extras section.

Anyway, as most of you know, Let’s Read Academics ran into a bit of trouble in that I bit off way more than I could chew. I did not expect that it would be that much more intense. Because sometimes I am a silly. It’s double the workload in a week, so of course it’s doubly intense. Thankfully, it’s only the let’s read that I’m struggling to keep up with precisely because it’s too much on top of the rest of September, so at least it should be easily remedied. I’ve asked for your input on your preferences, but for now I’m still leaning strongly towards cutting them into more managable chunks instead of trying to tackle a whole chapter per week. Let me know what you think, though!

Stand-out Positive Moment

My cooking success! First pumpkin soup of the season! Or the last depending on whether you think autumn starts September 1st or 21st, I suppose. I made the whole soup without checking a recipe and I added ghost pepper flakes to it and (miraculously) got the spicy heat I wanted exactly right. GO ME! And, because I’m me, that meant I had delicious sinus-clearing soup for half a week because I inevitably make way too much soup even without thinning it down.

Also cheesy potato bread. It’s kind of like… If you like cheese toast but complain that there’s always too little cheese on them and what there is isn’t molten enough and the toast goes cold too quickly, then these are so worth trying.

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Guest Interview: Lisa Jenn Bigelow on Hazel’s Theory of Evolution

Posted September 12, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Guest Posts / 0 Comments

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Today I’m interviewing Lisa Jenn Bigelow about her upcoming middle-grade novel, Hazel’s Theory of Evolution, a delightful and heartwrenching story about friends, family and growing up. Also, to the best of my knowledge, the very first middle-grade novel with an a-spec protagonist. I’ve been lucky enough to get a review copy (thank you, Lisa!) and the review will go up next Monday. Hazel’s Theory of Evolution releases on October 8th, 2019. That’s a little under a month from now, so you still have time to preorder this charming story! It’s so sweet. Definitely also get it if you (or your child) love animals. You’ll have a goat time! (Yes, I occasionally pun. Badly. Sorry not sorry?)

For now, though, let me give you the blurb of the book and pass the blog on to Lisa Jenn Bigelow! We talk about asexuality and labels, balancing laughter and tears, and friendship.

Cover for Hazel's Theory of Evolution by Lisa Jenn Bigelow: Features a young red-headed girl with glasses, holding a small dog.Hazel knows all about life on Earth. She could tell you anything from what earthworms eat to how fast a turkey can run. That’s because when she’s not hanging out with her best friend, Becca, or helping care for the goats on her family’s farm, she loves reading through dusty old encyclopedias. But even Hazel doesn’t have answers for the questions awaiting her as she enters eighth grade.

Due to redistricting, she has to attend a new school where she worries no one will understand her. And at home things get worse when she discovers one of her moms is pregnant. Hazel can’t wait to be a big sister, but her mom has already miscarried twice. Hazel fears it might happen again.

As Hazel struggles through the next few months, she’ll grow to realize that if the answers to life’s most important questions can’t be found in a book, she’ll have to find them within herself.

LEO: Hazel’s Theory of Evolution is one of the most heart-warming, queer books I’ve ever read, yet it deals with some extremely heavy topics such as bullying and the fear of her mother’s pregnancy going wrong. Did you find it difficult to balance between the two?

LJB: Pregnancy loss and infant death can tear families apart, but that wasn’t the story I wanted to tell in Hazel. I wanted to tell the story of a family that stays together, no matter what. That meant giving Hazel’s family (and friends) a lot of love and a lot of laughter because, at the risk of sounding corny, love and laughter are how we all get through the tough times in our lives. I took inspiration from Beverly Cleary’s Quimby family, Lois Lowry’s Krupnik family, and Madeleine L’Engle’s Austin family: funny, frank, and not without drama, but always loving to the core.

Plus, I’m only half-kidding when I say my personal rule is that every book I write has to make me laugh out loud and also has to make me cry. The most memorable rejection I got for my first novel, Starting from Here, complained that the book either needed to be happier or sadder. I guess my heart is balanced on that bittersweet cusp.

LEO: You’ve said in other interviews that you don’t really get along with labels, so how did this affect the writing of Hazel? You mention that Hazel is aroace in a lovely author’s note, but how did you balance people’s dislike of labels with people’s need for them in the story itself?

LJB: Labels are tricky. There are the labels other people give us and the labels we claim for ourselves, and sometimes the two don’t mesh. I describe Hazel as aromantic and asexual for the sake of readers who may not be familiar with those concepts or terms. Whether Hazel herself would claim those labels, or different labels, or any at all, would be a personal choice beyond this story’s scope. In contrast, Hazel’s friend Carina firmly claims the label transgender.

Beyond that, I minimize the use of labels. For example, Hazel’s moms have been married for over a decade, but I don’t delve into their dating histories or label their identities, because it didn’t seem relevant to the story. Instead, they are defined by their relationship to Hazel and to each other.

LEO: When the book starts, Hazel decides that she’s going to hibernate for a whole year. Obviously, this doesn’t work and the whole book calls out the stereotype that aros and aces are cold and unfeeling, but was busting stereotypes on your mind while drafting the book?

LJB: If my guiding image while writing Hazel was Darwin’s Tree of Life, my mantra was “Only connect!” from Howards End, by E. M. Forster. I wanted to explore the idea of all life, and all lives, being interconnected, whether we like it or not. You can’t opt out, you don’t exist in a vacuum. And you can’t disconnect from your own feelings, either, however appealing the idea might be. Love makes you vulnerable. Connection makes you vulnerable. But it’s also key to survival.

I hadn’t originally conceived Hazel as aroace—more on that later—so stereotype busting was not on my mind. I just had this idea of Hazel being a bit of a misanthrope and desperate to insulate herself against further pain. But I’m very glad the story worked out the way it did, with the theme that there are many ways to forge connections with other people, many different types of love out there, and that they don’t have to fit a certain mold to be valuable and valid.

Side note: I recently rewatched Ghostbusters (2016) and realized that, just possibly, Holtzmann’s toast to her friends at the end of the movie subconsciously inspired Hazel’s declaration of love to her friends in the school cafeteria.

LEO: Over the course of the book, Hazel and her best friend start to grow more apart. I’ve heard a lot of aces and aros talk about wishing that more books dealt with friendship break-ups. Though Hazel and Becca stay friends, can you tell us a little more about the importance of friendship in the book?

LJB: I wanted to show that a strong friendship can survive change. People change, and it follows that their friendships will, too. These changes may be painful, but they don’t have to be intentional or cruel or even necessarily harmful. Sometimes we seem to think friendships have to be all or nothing. They don’t. They wane and wax according to circumstances.

Too many stories villainize girls especially for “becoming popular” and ditching their old friends. I know this sometimes happens in real life, but I think it’s usually more complicated, as in Hazel and Becca’s situation. Once they were each other’s lifeline, but now that they’re at separate schools, they have to explore new options.

And they flourish. Their relationship loses its codependent aspect. So maybe it’s not just that strong friendships survive change. Friendships need to change to survive.

LEO: Hazel is going to be, to my knowledge, the first middle grade novel with a deliberately aroace protagonist published. Did that impact how you wrote the book at all? I’d imagine that can cause a lot of pressure during the publishing journey.

LJB: I hadn’t set out to create an aroace character in Hazel (though writing an ace character had been vaguely on my to-do list since I began considering myself on the ace spectrum a few years ago). So there wasn’t any special pressure at first.

But once it became apparent this was the direction Hazel’s orientation was taking, the questions began. How much of a discussion point did I want it to be? How should I explain terminology? Since I myself felt relatively new to the concepts, and at the fringes of the community, what if I accidentally wrote something hurtful?

Ultimately, I just wrote from the heart, drawing from my own experiences and emotions, though my journey toward self-understanding has been very different from Hazel’s. I read a-spec fora and think pieces to try to fill in the gaps. And as with any character I write, I asked myself, “What if I was a reader who feels the way Hazel feels—would I feel validated and supported?” Any answer less than 100% would have been unacceptable.

Lisa Jenn Bigelow grew up in Kalamazoo and still considers the Mitten State home. Lisa’s young adult novel, Starting from Here, was named a Rainbow List Top Ten Book by the American Library Association. Drum Roll, Please is her middle grade debut. When she isn’t writing, she serves as a youth librarian in the Chicago suburbs. Visit her online at www.lisajennbigelow.com.

And that concludes the interview. Hazel’s Theory of Evolution comes out October 8th, 2019, so you still have time to preorder from your favourite retailers such as Amazon and Indiebound.

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Review: Tarnished Are the Stars by Rosiee Thor

Posted September 9, 2019 by Lynn E. O'Connacht in Books / 0 Comments

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Review: Tarnished Are the Stars by Rosiee ThorTarnished Are the Stars by Rosiee Thor
Pages: 384

The Lunar Chronicles meets Rook in this queer #OwnVoices science-fantasy novel, perfect for fans of Marissa Meyer and Sharon Cameron.

A secret beats inside Anna Thatcher's chest: an illegal clockwork heart. Anna works cog by cog -- donning the moniker Technician -- to supply black market medical technology to the sick and injured, against the Commissioner's tyrannical laws.

Nathaniel Fremont, the Commissioner's son, has never had to fear the law. Determined to earn his father's respect, Nathaniel sets out to capture the Technician. But the more he learns about the outlaw, the more he questions whether his father's elusive affection is worth chasing at all.

Their game of cat and mouse takes an abrupt turn when Eliza, a skilled assassin and spy, arrives. Her mission is to learn the Commissioner's secrets at any cost -- even if it means betraying her own heart.

When these uneasy allies discover the most dangerous secret of all, they must work together despite their differences and put an end to a deadly epidemic -- before the Commissioner ends them first.

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